i know its been a while but i just wanted to thank everyone for their suggestions - i went to Punta Cana and had the best time - the hotel the beach the excursions - it was one of the best vacations i've had in years - i even found webster hall and saw bob sinclair - here's a clip - i hope i can go back soon!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BTQSsZDbx1k